Lessons and Books About Feelings 

By Laura Driscoll
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Children's picture books are the perfect way to introduce different social-emotional skills. One of the first social-emotional learning standards is teaching students to identify feelings. These four books are my favorite for showing students that we all have a range of emotions and that all feelings are okay.

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In My Heart

In My Heart is a beautifully illustrated book on feelings. It explores ten different emotions, creatively describing each. Happy is a big yellow star, shiny and bright. Sadness is as heavy as an elephant. 

Emotions that are positive, neutral, and negative are included. Throughout the book, the author shows that we all experience various emotions, and all those emotions are okay.

This book is the perfect starting point for rich student discussions about feelings. It can easily be used in school counseling or the classroom using student-friendly activities. 

Check out this post on In My Heart with suggested companion activities.

The Color Monster

The illustrations and descriptions in this book are so engaging. Similar to In My Heart, this book uses metaphors for each emotion. It talks about what you do when you feel certain emotions, such as dance or cry.

It covers a smaller set of feelings than the other books on this list.

A companion lesson is available in my store.

The Way I Feel

The Way I Feel by Janan Cain was the first time I used children's literature to explain social-emotional concepts to younger children. It has stayed one of my favorites over the last ten years.

Like In My Heart and The Color Monster, this book normalizes all feelings, whether positive or negative. This book does the best job of highlighting feelings and situations that are relatable and familiar. For example, one character is disappointed after plans get canceled, and another is frustrated when they can't do something.

Today I Feel Silly

Today I Feel Silly & Other Moods That Make My Day is a funny and engaging book about the feelings everyone experiences. It also gives kid-friendly reasons for why certain feelings happen. The writing is entertaining and allows for easy discussion. Like the other books, this one emphasizes that all feelings are okay. 

Don't miss the facial expression wheel at the back of the book! Students can match eyes and mouths to see how expressions change with each feeling.

What are your favorite books to teach about feelings?

Helpful SEL Read Alouds

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In My Heart Book Companion Activities

the color monster companion activities

The Color Monster Companion Activities

ABOUT LAURA
I’m a school psychologist who left her office (closet?) and got busy turning a decade of experience into ready to use counseling and SEL resources.

I live in New York City with my adventurous husband and relaxed to the max daughter who’ve grown to appreciate my love of a good checklist.

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